Dear Anca,
Long time ago, someone dear to me told me: try to be your best friend because you take care of the others but not for yourself.
I want to remind yourself that I am doing steps to be your best friend ever. This might take a long time, but you know these magic words: “trust the process” and “go with the flow”-your motto for 2023.
Below, some advices for you:
- Always be kind with yourself.
- Be proud of who you are at this moment.
- Enjoy the new challenges, the new home. It is said that home is where the heart is. That’s true.
- Take easy steps and reward yourself for every small achievement.
- Allow yourself to express your emotions: be angry, sad, impatient, etc: remember, don’t stay too much in a low energy, set the timer:)) and focus on the good.
- Allow those quality people to come and stay close to you and learn something from them.
- Some people might have completely different perspectives from yours, and that’s ok. Surround with love the idea ” what people will say …” (”ce spune lumea”). It’s not about you. You understand what I mean.
- Keep your optimism and empathy.
- You learned to enjoy a coffee, time in the nature, to connect with the people and this is cool- keep this in mind.
- Allow yourself to do mistakes: be aware, laugh, learn, do corrections.
- Find fun in everything you do.
- Don’t miss a day without smiling.
- Don’t be shy and take always the courage- you have nothing to loose.
- Ask yourself questions and let the answers to come to you.
- Many other advices will come on the way just pay attention to the signs….
I trust you. I am with you.
Thank you for being you,
Your best friend:), Anca.
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